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Sex Aversion Due to Sexual Abuse
   
   
    
    
    I was molested by my father as a child, and it wasn't until I was well
            into adulthood before I struggled with it. However, I am really
            uncomfortable with sex to the point where I will try very hard to avoid it.
            Could the two be related?
    
    
    It is very likely that the sexual abuse of the past is related to the sexual
            aversion of the present - for quite some time, it has been established
            that the fallout of childhood abuse can be far-reaching, affecting some
            women well into adulthood. Most victims report feelings of
            helplessness, and have higher incidence rates of depression,
            post-traumatic stress disorder, and a condition called "sexual aversion
            disorder," which explains some victims' difficulty in their sexual
            relationships in adulthood.
    
    
    Sexual aversion disorder, while it can be found among the general
            population, is especially associated with victims of abuse. This
            disorder is characterized by unusually strong, negative feelings toward
            sexual contact, including fear, anxiety, or disgust. People who suffer
            from the condition avoid sex as much as possible, and if they do
            decide to become physical with their partners, they don't enjoy it.
    
    
    
            Fortunately, sexual aversion disorder can be treated through therapy
            with an understanding counselor. Obviously, because the condition is
            linked to sexual abuse, the abuse issues should be dealt with at the
            same time. As a bonus, getting these issues clear up can improve a
            woman's overall quality of life, since the many psychological disorders
            that are linked to abuse will be healed as she addresses her past.
    
    
    
    
 
 
 
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